Nikahi Pria Penyandang Disabilitas, YouTuber Cantik Buktikan Hubungan Cinta Sejati Memang Ada

 

 

 

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Shane and I are really sad that the in-person @laughingatmynightmareinc 5K isn’t going to happen this year. BUT we are super excited that so many of you have signed up for the virtual 5K that will be taking place instead! This is a great way for anyone, anywhere in the world to support a wonderful charity by running, walking, or rolling the 5K from your own neighborhood (or treadmill)! The deadline to register is May 31. Click the link in my bio for more info!⁣ ⁣ 📷 @jermcohen

A post shared by Hannah Burcaw (@hannahayl) on May 14, 2020 at 12:15pm PDT

Pernikahan di masa pandemi memang bukan perkara mudah. Konsep pernikahan impian yang telah dirancang sebelumnya harus berubah akibat pandemi. Akhirnya pernikahan mengharukan ini disaksikan oleh keluarga dan para penggemar mereka melalui aplikasi Zoom.

Hubungan keduanya mulai dikenal banyak orang setelah dua tahun lalu Burcaw dan Aylward memulai saluran YouTube mereka. Melalui saluran ini, Aylward terutama ini berkata bahwa mengkhawatirkan pendapat orang hanya membuang-buang waktu.

"Beberapa tahun lalu, membaca kata-kata seperti ini menyakitkan. Untuk sementara, saya berpegang pada gagasan bahwa begitu Shane dan saya menikah, semua orang yang meragukan hubungan kamu akan menyadari bahwa itu nyata," ungkap Hannah

 

 

 

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If the past two years of having a YouTube channel have taught me anything, it’s that you’re never going to be able to educate everyone. No matter what you do, some people will just never come around. Worrying about these people’s opinions is a waste of time, and as time has gone on, it’s become so much easier to genuinely have no internal reaction to comments like these. A few years ago, reading words like these was painful. For a while, I held onto the idea that once Shane and I were married, all the people doubting our relationship would realize it was real. Now, of course, I’m not that naive. Although it’s taken time, I’m able to completely dismiss people like this. Shane and I continue to make content and share our story with the hopes of showing as many people as we can that disabled people are worthy partners. Comments like these only encourage us to continue! We’re so grateful for all of the people that our story has managed to reach in a positive way.

A post shared by Hannah Burcaw (@hannahayl) on Sep 11, 2020 at 3:41pm PDT

Ya! Di awal kemunculan mereka di saluran YouTube tidak sedikit warganet yang melontarkan komentar negatif. Terutama melihat kondisi Shane yang tidak sempurna, merasa bahwa ia bukanlah sosok pria yang tepat untuk Hannah.

Butuh waktu bagi Hannah untuk bisa mengabaikan apa yang orang katakan tentang hubungannya. Shane dan Hannah tetap fokus membuat konten dan berbagi cerita kepada sebanyak mungkin bahwa penyandang disabilitas adalah pasangan yang layak.

"Komentar seperti ini hanya mendorong kami untuk terus maju. Kami sangat berterima kasih kepada semua orang yang berhasil menyaksikan cerita kami dengan cara yang positif," ungkap Hannah.

#changemaker